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The Idaho Potato Drop, New Years 2014, New Years Eve Idaho

The potato dropping on downtown Boise, New Years eve 2014. As covered by the Idaho Statesmen

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  1. June 29, 2014 at 12:52 pm | Permalink

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      • July 23, 2014 at 7:13 am | Permalink

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      • July 24, 2014 at 12:39 am | Permalink

        Does anyone have sttaistics about relationships and marriages that begin under unorthodox circumstances?I am looking for actual sttaistics concerning three different circumstances under which relationships and or marriages begin AND THEN the actual sttaistics I am looking for concern the success or failure of those new relationships.1. I am looking for stats concerning relationships and marriages that begin as affairs on a previous spouse or significant other. What are the stats on success or failure of these new relationships and marriages when they begin as affairs? After 3 years? 5 years? longer?2. When one spouse meets someone new, leaves their marriage for that new person and the new couple marry within 6 months to a year of having met each other?3. Finally I need sttaistics on marriages that take place within 6 months or a year of having divorced a former spouse AND stats concerning when one of the two in the new marriage are getting married for the THIRD time.PLEASE no anecdotal evidence. If you don\’t know what anecdotal evidence means, it means that you want to tell me about your situation or someone you know who was in one of these situations. Anecdotal evidence is NOT evidence.I need these stats for a paper I am writing and I am having a difficult time finding such specific stats.If you know these stats, would you please post links to your sources so I can quote from them in my research?Thank you! Thank you! Please NO personal stories!

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      • July 24, 2014 at 4:31 am | Permalink

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      • July 23, 2014 at 5:23 am | Permalink

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        Does marriage rlelay change things?Does getting married rlelay change things? Like I know change is going to happen and it’s completely normal, but I’m just a bit worried as I’ll be getting married in four months.My sister and here husband were fighting today. About infidelity. My fiance and I are quite young and we already have a one year old son together and we’ve had our struggles, but we’ve always worked through it together.You here so many awful stories all the time it makes you wonder if there’s any hope or if there is even a point. But can the act of marriage, signing that piece of paper, rlelay make all things head down hill from their? Doesn’t a couple that never gets married but still lives as a married couple do, having kids etc, still face all the problems that any other married couple do?I would just like to say my fiance is the most selfless man I’ve ever know. He is humble and patient. He is a wonderful father and treats everyone with the utmost respects and love, even when they are undeserving. He is one in a million, treats me better than a princess and I love him just as much.I agree with and disagree with queen of beer. A collage degree does not make a susessful marriage. My fiance’s dad quit school when he was 14. But 30 years later he is a successful man. He has two businesses an amazing wife of 27 years and six amazing children.

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        Is this enough to make her lose her kids?My sttmpoeher has 2 kids, ages 12 7. I have proof in the form of e-mails sent from her to my father vice versa that she was having an affair with him before she was divorced. They include details like her going running him picking her up when out of sight, running up to a house from the car with a blanket over their heads, ect. I also have documentation that they as a couple, were on adult friend finder when she was still married, they were seeking bisexual relationships. I have pictures of explicit items such as sweet lube adult toys in plain view of the children in the bedroom. I also have proof she is bulimic and therefore emotionaly unstable. She also walks around totally nude with her 12 year old son in the house. If I send this information to her ex husband, will he be able to use it take the kids? I also have the papers were my dad mapped out what she was going to say in court to gain custody. I got all this by going through his files and using a digital cameraI DO have proof they left dildos, porn(forgot to mention that) and sex lube where the kids could see itIt is completely my buisness. She doesn’t deserve her kidsDo you REALLY think I would use my name to do it? I would claim I was one of their ex. girls. And flagger_guy. what THEY did was dispicable. yes, this IS revenge oriented, but you dont know the whole story. Dont pretend you do

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        For one, just end it. Tell the other man that you had fun but you feel the two of you need to concentrate on your own maairrges tell him that you are feeling guilty which means you do love your husband. He will probably understand and even respect you for it. I see in your other question hes married, too so ask him, how would his wife feel if she knew about the steamy letters the two of you share? Suggest to him to work on his marriage, too . he may just agree You obviously love your husband. Let him know you love him and let him know you are scared where your marriage is going. Let him know you like it when other men flirt with you that it makes you feel like a woman tell him thats the way he use to make you feel and you miss it and tell him you want him to be in love and lust with you again I would like to advise you to seek counseling for yourself so that you can learn how to talk to your husband and explain how you feel.. maybe theres unmet needs you dont know how to share with him. The counselor can also help you with your feelings of being un-attractive and help your self esteem. Perhaps marital counseling would be a great benefit as well. The two of you need time together to explore one another again. I dont know how long you have been married, but sometimes people grow apart in two different directions instead of one. Im glad to see you dont want to be in different directions anymore. Let him know this. Just talk to you your husband. I would not tell him about the emotional affair since it didnt get physical and was basically just a bunch of flirting. It would just hurt him and make him withdrawl even more. (Personally- I like it when a man flirts with me it reminds me I am still attractive just cant let it cloud your mind. I even tell my husband when a man flirts with me because it makes him more possessive and reminds him I am still hot tee hee!)How do you fix it? By not going back to it. Leave it in the past. Dont do it again. Prevent it from happening again. How? By recognizing the feelings that you have been feeling from the get go- surely theres some red flags when you get all giddy about being perceived as hot! Take the compliment and go on. Dont fall prey to it again. going to counseling can help you with this.Admiting it was wrong is half the battle won.

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      • July 23, 2014 at 6:42 am | Permalink

        your in your mid 20 s so your suppose to be old enugoh to make choices with ur life that atleast take half a brain to come up with the answer.. YOU chose to marry him knowing these things.. you made that decision no one forced u into it.. so now u need to learn to work through this.. I knew a couple that were dating on the internet.. and although they were commited to each other through the internet the guy was getting sick of waiting wondering if she’d ever really come cause he was trusting in her that she was infact going to come but kept stalling or having reasons to put off coming to the point that he considered having sex with someone else because it was a year and a half since they had met online, and lets face it a year and a half of no sex is alot to ask of anyone, but let alone someone that u’ve never met fact to face.. so maybe thats what happened with ur guy, maybe he started to lose faith that u’d eventually move to be with him and he made a bad choice.. i doubt if it was anything but sex..and now that u are with him.. and now married to him.. has he given u any reason to believe that he’d cheat on u now? Since Oct.. and this whole thing with this chic came to light, has he done anything to make you feel insecure? is he hiding things? is he constantly late? is he still contacting her? is he trying his butt off to make u see that he loves u and only u and wants to be only with u??????? crap happens, but his true commitment wasnt made till the day he said I do to u.. and if from this moment on for the next 50 years he loves u and is true to u wouldnt it be worth it? so give him a chance, if he screws it up again, go back home and chalk it up to a huge mistake.. but u chose to marry him, so u chose to give him this chance to prove to you that he can forsake all others and be true to only you.. so dont be blind.. but have faith that he wouldnt of gone to all the trouble of marrying u if he truely didnt want to be with u .. if he wanted her , he could of been with her, but he chose u in the end so give ur marriage a fair shake.. try and put this behind u and look forward.. until he gives u a reason not to trust in your marriage and your vows..To your edit.. really doesnt change things.. ur the idiot that chose to still marry him knowing all of this.. so u need to own up to the choices u’ve made and be accountable for your own actions.. marriage vows are not to be taken lightly and the fact that u still proceeded to marry this guy and a month later ur thinking it was a mistake , just shows how stupid and immature u really are.. he didnt trick u , you have your own brain to bad u dont know how to use it..

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        Alicia,If you want to get ex back, there are some things that you can do:Cut off all cotanct for a while. This one is probably going to be the hardest. You should stop talking to him for 2-4 weeks. That means no IM’s, no email, no phone calls, no texts, nothing.I know this sounds like it should be the opposite. Your gut reaction is going to be that you want to talk to them work it out, tell them how much you care, etc However, this is not the time to do it.Why? Because they won’t want to deal with you when you seem desperate or clingy. If you cut them off, then cotanct them again after a few weeks, it will make them curious as to where you went and what you have been up to. In fact from your question, I have the feeling you’re communicating too much with him which is what is helping to push him further away.Stay active. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to do you any good. Now is a good time to find a new hobby or hang out with friends even more. Try dating someone new. Yes, you’re not really in the mood to be with anyone else right now. That’s understandable, but there’s nothing wrong with getting out and getting to know someone.Start exercising, if you don’t already.Exercise is good for two reasons: It will not only help you to look better, it will also help you to feel better. Having some new confidence can actually help to get your ex back. If you are looking good and feeling good, they will notice. There is a lot more detailed information at the site mentioned in my resource box. I wish you good luck and I hope that things work out for you. If you follow the tips I’ve given you and check out the resource you may just get ex back.

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